Your child is hot, miserable and not themselves, and you are standing in the hallway trying to decide whether this is something that waits until morning. Almost every parent has had that evening. This article is written for that moment, so the urgent part comes first and the rest follows.
Signs That Mean Call 999 Or Go To A&E Now
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Book Nowor message us on WhatsAppDo not wait for any appointment, ours or anyone else’s, if your child has any of the following. A rash that does not fade when you press a glass against it. Difficulty breathing, which in a child looks like very fast breathing, grunting with each breath, the skin sucking in under or between the ribs, or pauses in breathing. Skin that is pale, mottled, blue or ashen. A fit or seizure. Being very difficult to wake, or unresponsive, or floppy. A weak, high pitched or continuous cry. A stiff neck with dislike of bright light, or a bulging soft spot on a baby’s head. If your child is under 3 months old and has a temperature of 38C or above, that is treated as urgent regardless of how well they otherwise seem.
Trust yourself here. Parents are usually right that something is different, and no clinician will think you wasted their time. If you are frightened, that on its own is a good enough reason to seek urgent help.
What The Thermometer Does And Does Not Tell You
Parents are often surprised that the number matters less than they expect. A fever is the immune system working, not the illness itself, and a child with a temperature of 39C who is drinking, alert and playing between doses is usually less worrying than a child at 38C who is limp, refusing all fluids and hard to rouse. What clinicians actually watch is how the child looks and behaves: are they responding to you, taking fluids, passing urine, breathing comfortably, and are they improving or getting worse hour by hour.
Most fevers in children come from common viral infections and settle by themselves within a few days without needing anything beyond fluids, rest and comfort. That is genuinely the usual outcome. It does not mean nothing should ever be checked, and it does not mean your instinct is wrong.
Can A Video Consultation Help Today?
Often yes, and it is worth being clear about what it can and cannot do. Clinique Alpa is currently operating as a virtual first service during a sabbatical period, with in person appointments expected to resume from 24 August 2026, so a same day appointment today means a video or telephone consultation, subject to availability.
A video consultation is genuinely useful for taking a careful history, watching how your child is breathing and behaving, looking at a rash, assessing how well they are drinking and how alert they are, advising on fluids and comfort, and agreeing a clear plan for what should happen if things change overnight. That last part, the safety net, is often the most valuable thing a parent takes away.
It cannot replace hands on examination. We cannot listen to a chest, look inside ears or a throat properly, or feel an abdomen through a screen. So if the assessment suggests your child needs examining, we will say so directly and point you to the right place today rather than reassure you from a distance. Being told plainly that your child should be seen in person is a useful outcome of a consultation, not a failure of one.
When To Ring NHS 111 Instead
If your child is unwell and you are unsure, NHS 111 is free, available at any hour, and can arrange urgent assessment including out of hours care. Use it when you are worried but none of the emergency signs above are present, and particularly overnight when you want an answer quickly. For a baby aged between 3 and 6 months with a temperature of 39C or above, for a fever lasting more than 5 days, for a child who is not drinking or has had no wet nappies for many hours, or for a fever that keeps returning after seeming to settle, contact a clinician rather than waiting it out.
What Helps While You Are Deciding
Keep offering small amounts of fluid often, more frequently than usual, since dehydration causes more trouble than the fever itself. Dress your child in normal clothing rather than wrapping or cooling them aggressively. There are over the counter medicines intended for children that can bring a temperature down and make them more comfortable, and they should only ever be given according to the instructions on the packet for your child’s age and weight. Their purpose is comfort rather than cure, and a temperature that comes down does not by itself prove the illness is minor. Check on your child through the night, and reassess against the red flags above rather than against the thermometer.
Frequently Asked Questions
How high does a fever have to be before I worry?
There is no single number that decides it, except under 3 months of age where 38C or above is always treated as urgent. Beyond that, how your child looks and behaves matters more than the reading.
Can you prescribe antibiotics over video?
Only where it is clinically appropriate, and most childhood fevers are viral, so antibiotics would do nothing. If a bacterial infection is suspected we will tell you what we think is needed and how to get it safely.
How much is a same day appointment?
A 15 minute virtual consultation is £65 and 30 minutes is £79.99, published on our fees page. When in person appointments resume, a paediatric consultation and examination is £100.
My child seems better after medicine then worse again. Is that normal?
It is common, because the medicine treats the temperature rather than the infection. Judge your child on the red flags and on how they are overall, not on the peaks and troughs.
Should I go straight to A&E instead?
If any emergency sign above is present, yes, immediately. Otherwise 111 or a same day consultation is usually the faster and calmer route.
Worried about your child today? If any emergency sign above is present call 999 now. Otherwise a same day virtual consultation is 15 minutes £65 or 30 minutes £79.99, published on our fees page. Call 020 8882 8088. Subject to availability. For NHS advice at any hour call 111.
Written by Dr Mitesh Parmar, MBBS MRCGP, GP and founder of Clinique Alpa, 466 Green Lanes, Palmers Green, London N13 5PA. This article is general information, not personal medical advice. In an emergency call 999. For NHS advice call 111 or visit nhs.uk.
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